Well i go to court in one week to figure out what is going to be happinging with Katie. In the mean time he has been a real jerk. We had worked out where he would meet me to get her at 6 pm on thurs. and then drop her back off at 6pm on sun. but we had a family thing come up for my fam. on Sun. at 3pm in Tucson. So I tried to talk to him to see if I could pick her up early and he could get her early on thurs. but apparently it is okay for her to be left with his parents all the time but not okay for me to take her to see my family and be there with her.