Decisions

We have finallydecided to not go the permenant way yet. More so cause my heart wasn't in it. That and G'rat wasn't so sure about me going through surgury. So thank fully we have made a decision finally. And LVH if I could get G to see it that way believe me I would, he believes that four is way to many so we have enough. Me on the other hand I would love to have more kids. Oh well that is a topic for another day. Just wanted to update you all.

temporary or permenant?

Ok we are trying to figure out if we should go with a temporary birthcontrol meathod such as the Depo shot or some thing more permant such as essure.
http://essure.com/Home/Understanding/WhatisEssure/tabid/55/Default.aspx

Which is a more permenant solution. the only thing is it is a fairly new procedure and just the though of me going in for any type of surgury is quite scary. I am just still not sure. I mean we have 4 children but only one is both of ours and a part of me wants to have another one, but I keep getting this look from people that i am out of my mind for thinking that with already having 4 but I love having a big family. Err I just don't know. This has been a big headache of ours lately. Anyone have any suggestions? Please help any opinion or suggestion would help us. we are trying to look into all the possibilities.